Role models.

It is very apparent that other people influence our lives. In society, successful individuals are usually portrayed as role models. Although the term role model carries a positive connotation the definition itself does not specify. A role model is any person who serves as an example, whose behaviour is emulated by others. Role models are often attained as a child but can be carried through adolescence and even last during adulthood.

A male child's role model is often someone who has a heroic appeal: fireman, police man, soldier, etc. Children gawk at men in these positions as they fight fires and face bad guys. They also see these men being praised and learn early on that what they do is good and honorable. For a young female, the role model stereotype changes. Often it is a women with extreme beauty, but not always. Little girls look up to the hero's as well but are often persuaded by parents and friends to worship the supermodel, or pageant queen.

These influences can be both positive and negative. To some young males, the typical role model may be unattainable and looses glory with age. Although it may encourage them to live healthy lifestyles and grow big and strong, it is important that they also become aware that it is not all smiles and happy endings. Some will grow up and be exactly what they admired as children but others ideas of what is important to them will change. They may aspire to be scientists or teachers instead of the stereotype and that is perfectly acceptable. The role model that is thrust upon them at such a young age can be so damaging to moral and their perspective on life.

For girls, role models can be especially dangerous. The size 0 body type isn't healthy for majority of women and can be ultimately deadly to pursue. Pageants influence world knowledge and travel but have many more negative aspects to young girls who strive to be queen. The pearly white teeth, perfect tan, flawless skin and thick healthy hair don't come naturally. Try explaining that to a young teen going through puberty. Females develop unhealthy body images and extremely bad eating habits due to these standards being shoved in their faces their entire upbringing.

Right from the start with Barbi dolls and G.I. Joe action figures role models begin to influence us. Be it negative or positive our lives and perspectives are altered.